Patricia Mary Phaneuf, a devoted mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, who resided in Hudson for most of her life, passed away peacefully at the Golden Pond Assisted Living Community in Hopkinton, MA. on April 8, 2026, 11 days short of her 93rd birthday. Born on April 19, 1933 in Marlborough MA, Patricia's life was marked by her unwavering dedication to family, her nurturing spirit, and a strong will that inspired those around her.

Raised in Hudson, Pat proudly graduated from Hudson High School with the love of her life, Dick Phaneuf in 1951. Soon after, she embarked on her professional journey, holding several positions at the former Hudson National Bank, before applying her talents as a Claims Administrator at the D. Francis Murphy Insurance Agency in Hudson until her retirement in 1993.  Throughout her career and retirement years, she remained a figure of kindness and commitment.

Family was the cornerstone of Pat’s life. She married her high school sweetheart, Dick Phaneuf, sharing 68 cherished years until his passing in 2023. Together, they raised a loving family, which was a source of great pride and joy for Pat. She was a loving mother to her son Stephen R. Phaneuf and his partner Linda Muren of Hopkinton, MA; her son James P. Phaneuf and his wife Susan of Milford, MA; and her daughter Susan M. Desimone and her husband James of Shrewsbury, MA. Pat’s compassion and generosity extended deeply into her role as grandmother to Gina M. Phaneuf, Brad W. Phaneuf and his wife Trista, Angela R. Phaneuf, Lori E. Gelsomini, Nicole P. Dutton and her husband Stanley, and Alex A. Desimone. She is also survived by ten great-grandchildren, who, alongside her grandchildren, were the recipients of her boundless love and generosity. Pat’s extended family includes her loving sister Eileen Devlin of Hudson, MA, as well as numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives and close friends who will remember her fondly.

Pat’s personality was as warm as it was strong. She was known for her good-natured and caring demeanor, coupled with a steadfast loyalty to those she called friends. Her grandchildren and great-grandchildren especially cherished her generous spirit, as she delighted in celebrating every birthday and special occasion with thoughtful gifts and affection. Pat’s love for her family was evident in everything she did.  She also enjoyed watching sports with Dick and loved her special treats of ice cream and chocolate whenever possible.

Later in life, Pat and Dick retired to Cape Cod in 1994. In 2002, they relocated to Shrewsbury to be closer to their children and grandchildren, embracing the joy of shared milestones and everyday moments. Since 2020, Pat and Dick resided at the Golden Pond Assisted Living Community in Hopkinton, where she continued to be surrounded by love and support after Dick passed away in 2023.  The Management and aides of Golden Pond were wonderful to both of our parents during the 3 years for Dick, and the 6 years that Pat lived at the facility.

Pat’s passing is mourned deeply by all who knew her. She was preceded in death by her husband Richard Alan Phaneuf; her parents, Stanley and Ida (Spratt) Duley; her brother Warren Duley; her sisters Anne Corrine “Nina” Parker, Sheila Whitney, and her grandchild Jeffrey J. Phaneuf. Her family and friends take comfort in remembering a woman whose life was dedicated to kindness, loyalty, and love.

Visitation will be held on Thursday, April 16, 2026, from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. at the Tighe Hamilton Regional Funeral Home, located at 50 Central Street, Hudson, MA. A Funeral Service and Celebration of Patricia's life will be held at 12:00 p.m., and a procession will follow to Forestvale Cemetery on Broad Street, Hudson for internment.

Pat’s legacy is one of devotion—to her family, her friends, and her community. Her lifelong commitment to those she loved, her gentle strength, and her generous heart will be remembered and cherished by all whose lives she touched.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: Faith & Family Hospice  Foundation, 420 Lakeside Ave, Suite 203-A, Marlborough, MA 01752. They are the “Angels on Earth” who took wonderful care of our Mom while in Memory Care.